So one of the things I tout in my biz is I can dissect your blocks very quickly. People think it’s quite amazing that I have that ability. It’s actually something you can train yourself to do too. It’s just a matter of really listening.

I’ll give you an example. Last night I was in the weight room at my gym. Two guys started talking to each other within my earshot. They were quite loud to my dismay. That also meant, I had to hear what one of the guys said, “So did you find any hot chicks on New Years Eve? Did you find your future ex-wife?”

My immediate reaction was, “What happened to the neighborhood? Is my rent going to drop now?” Next, I could hear a few things about the loudmouth.

In the context of love:
1) He is disconnected — he is looking for women
2) He is status conscious — notice he wanted “hot” chicks
3) He has low self-esteem — you would only objectify others when you see yourself as crud
4) He has problems connecting to people — his assumption about relationship is it’s going to end
5) He likes to avoid reality — notice he reframed his pain into a semi unsuccessful joke
6) He is pessimistic — projecting a negative future
7) He is prone to both depression and anxiety — it is just what disconnection and negative future bring on

That’s just the top layer from a 2 second listen. That’s the magic of how I do what I do. I just listen and sort out the personality traits.

It is amazing how much we say without ever realizing we have said it. Listening, really listening, tells you everything. We are human beings. We can’t cover up, nor should we. Refer back to one of my philosophies — In the end, we are all trying to express our gifts. This guy has got quite a few blocks to get through first though.

What blocks are holding you back? Just think about the things you want to do, you ought to do but that you are not doing now. That will give you some clues. Removing your blocks is a necessary step to putting yourself on the right path to your success. Sign up for a power hour with me and start your success right away.

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